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your style muse


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a woman, or a force personified as a woman, who is the source of inspiration for a creative artist.


We all need a little style inspiration from time to time to get our own fashion juices flowing.

Creatives use muses, and there’s no reason why we can’t do the same. From Dramatic Creative to Elegant Sophistication there is a celebrity for every style personality. Here’s a sample of wonderful women to help inspire you.

Pure Elegance: Kate Middleton, Princess Mary of Denmark and Jacqueline Kennedy




All royals in different ways, they are the epitome of class and sophistication. We’ll never catch Kate or Mary in anything but ladylike ensembles that are modern, demure and true to their age and positions.

Today, we could easily compare them both to the unforgettable and classic Jackie Kennedy.

Maybe taking style inspiration from Princess Diana; Kate Middleton is certainly a style maven to watch out for as she turns the tide from couture towards keeping style real as she selects garments from everyday high street brands.

Artsy: Katy Perry


When it comes down to creativity, Katy Perry takes the spot. This beauty goes from transformation to transformation, letting her moods dictate her style—even her hair colour! Katy isn’t afraid of what people think; she just wants to be free to express herself through her clothing. Sure, wearing candy canes on your bust may seem a bit out-there, but there’s nothing wrong with a flower crown. Katy can easily be followed by anyone wanting an innovative approach to their wardrobe.

Glamizon: Olivia Polermo and Rita Hayworth



— Because even walking the dog requires a set of pumps and possibly a fur stole! Olivia Polermo is definitely a glamorous style icon to look toward for styling ideas for those fancy occasions. Olivia has never been spotted looking anything but glitzy. She is also the perfect style inspiration for petite women looking for a more tailored style. She never let the fact that she’s small interfere with her wardrobe.

In the forties Rita Hayworth reigned supreme as the Glamour Queen and was pinned in prime position in most men’s lockers.

No-Fuss: Freida Pinto

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It’s no secret that even without makeup Freida Pinto can do no wrong! Loose straps, crazy metals—they’re just not for her. Freida always has an effortless look that never looks rushed or ragged. Black and nudes seep through her wardrobe, but she does work in a bit of color play. When it comes to a hassle-free wardrobe Freida can definitely lend some motivation.

Sixties style icon Twiggy reflects the laid back style that made her look so appealing to masses of women wanting a new era of personal freedoms.

Femme Fatales: Sophia Loren and Eva Mendes


No one could resist that intense stare that only Sophia Loren was capable of giving. Sophia Loren was the ultimate femme fatale, and today Eva Mendez has taken over the crown. These women could still make us drool while wearing a paper bag. Defined brows and eyes can easily make you just as alluring. Eva pulls off her feminine appeal in old-school separates with a modern day palette of soft blushes and peaches under boxy coats and trendy head wraps. A mod twist is what takes their style to another level.

Polished Glam: Victoria Beckham, Cate Blanchett and Wallis Simpson


You probably would have never of thinking of Cate Blanchett or Victoria Beckham all at once until now, but these ladies are known for their personal takes on posh looks—no pun intended. Who knew the former Spice Girl would wind up at the top of the fashion ranks? While Victoria expresses her style through a more dramatic angle, Cate takes the reigns on simplicity. Always looking effortlessly elegant, Cate has a hassle-free laidback approach to take on posh. Ever so ladylike and stunning, these women are to be watched both on the streets and on the red carpet.

When we look to the past the standout of this style inspiration is Wallis Simpson

Sexy: Kim Kardashian, Beyonce and Marlene Dietrich


Love her or hate her; blonde or brunette; Kim Kardashian easily takes the cake in sexy. Kim knows exactly how to turn her sexy charm on with a seducing wardrobe. In the main she’s less about showing off skin and more about playing up her curves in bodycon outfits. Tight dresses and high heels are a must for this one; also petite, Kim gives herself a pick-me-up with show stealing pumps. It’s hard to deny the fact that despite any personal choice that made her famous, she rocks the sidewalk with every step.

Queen Bey on, the other hand, gives any girly look a bit of sexy edge. From short shorts, a baggy tee and sky-high stilettos Beyonce knows how to rock sexy. A play on prints paired with some dashing prints is Beyonce’s way of looking effortlessly sultry in just about anything.

Marlene Dietrich had a sultry sexiness that extended from being the first to pioneer androgynous style to top hats, tuxedos and tails. This amazing German-American actress and singer of the ’30′s and 4o’s wore it all and looked just as sexy and fabulous in furs and come-hither frocks.

Classy Sassy: Miranda Kerr and Audrey Hepburn


Does this Aussie babe ever leave the house looking bad…definitely not! Miranda has a way of effortlessly putting together classic pieces for the ultimate off-duty look. Sweet is as far as she goes, you will never see her strutting down the street in anything but fabulous pieces. From squared off bowling bags to pointy heels, Miranda was definitely made to be a style icon to follow on those days that you want to keep it simple yet fabulous.

Audrey Hepburn epitomises this style; she kept to simple, clean lines to ensure she did not overwhelm her elfin look while enlisting bold accessories for contrast and highlight – her fashion legacy includes sunglasses, headscarves, ballet shoes and 1950s frocks, especially “The Little Black Dress”, all remain popular to this day.

Sidewalk Rocker: Rihanna


No surprise here! It seems like everywhere she goes, our favourite controversial pop star is strutting the streets looking completely different than the day before. From hair changes, to style changes, Rihanna is definitely a drama queen—in fashion style that is. One day she’ll rock and ultra-femme look to inspire you, and the next she’ll have a sexy-sporty look on. Rihanna is unpredicatable when it comes to style, which is why she’s important to watch out for. Somethings you may love, somethings you may hate—but the girl knows how to get attention through a single outfit.

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fashion for 50 year olds


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Have you ever peered in a store window or watched in horror as you’ve seen the latest hot looks saunter down a catwalk and thought ‘they’ve gotta be kidding — how am I supposed to wear that?!
While, it’s true that fashion trends are primarily aimed at the young, looking current is important and very achievable at any age. I cringe when I hear women say things like ‘who cares, I’ve obviously passed my fashion used-by-date’, or ‘I don’t even bother trying any more no-one makes for a shape like mine anyway’

Over the years they have skillfully managed to avoid fashion stores and now wear the same comfortable clothes they’ve had for years.  No wonder they feel frumpy!   
Dressing in a current and stylish manner after fifty is easy and very achievable no matter what your budget or lifestyle is. And I promise you, you’ll feel younger for making the effort and others will definitely notice the trendier, more youthful you.

If you are still in the workforce having a current look will also help others see you as someone who still is up with what is going on and someone to respect and take seriously.    
So, how do you interpret fashion trends without looking like mutton dressed as lamb or feeling trussed up like a chook for thanksgiving dinner? 

#1: Reconcile with, and Adapt to The Body You Have Today

If you are over fifty your body will have changed and finding the right trends and adapting them will be a useless exercise if you do not intimately and accurately know the body you have TODAY. I’m always surprised at how many over fifty women do not know their body shape.  Maybe it’s a case that they’d rather not know – but please…that approach is only going to limit your life, opportunities and look.  I PROMISE YOU even if you do not like the body you have today and it looks like gravity and cellulite are winning you CAN LOOK FABULOUS, so stop putting it off. Go get into your knickers, stand in front of a full length mirror and take a good long loving look at your body from head to toe and work out what shape you are today.  This includes your horizontal body shape, bust size, weight, vertical ratio, and prominent features. If you need a little help My Private Stylist is here to help with our $25 professional photo assessment service.  

Color is the next thing to consider.  If you have had a color analysis in the past, then all you may need is an update if you hair is a different color or if more than 10 years have elapsed.  Everyone’s coloring changes overtime with most women getting paler and cooler with time.  Probably the most important thing about color is to avoid wearing dark colors near your face as they will make you appear paler and will throw shadows onto your face exaggerating any lines or dark areas.    

Betty White

#2: Assess Your Hair, Makeup and Eyewear.

When was the last time you updated your hairstyle and the way you apply your make-up?  If you’ve been doing both the same way for years it’s definitely time for a change. A new hairstyle and makeup are the quickest and most effective way to update your look and gain instant gratification.  In fact a good hairstyle can have similar results to a mini face-lift. This photo from a makeover by Carol Tuttle is a great example.



The second thing which needs evaluating is your makeup. What worked even a few years may not be doing you any favors today. You can “try on” make-up at Taaz to see what colors and types are appropriate for you.


The third thing you need to consider is your glasses. Out of date frames make you look older (and out of date). Get to your local eyewear store and take some time trying on various styles – especially ones you’d normally not choose. Who knows? You might discover a color or style that really makes you pop. Don’t limit yourself to one pair. Purchasing a couple different frames enables you to switch out your look, keeping it fresher longer.


#3: Get and Stay Active

You’ve already heard it said but it bears repeating: eat right and exercise! A healthy body and mind are crucial to maintaining a healthy appearance. Consult your physician on what exercises are right for you. They might be lifting weights, walking, core exercises, or short bursts of high intensity exercise.

#4: Determine Your Signature Style 

How do you determine your signature style? Make a list of adjectives which describe the look you’re going for. This includes the type of clothing, other people’s impression of you, your personality, and what you want to enhance/minimize. Take this list with you or memorize it when you go shopping. Any garment or accessory which doesn’t reflect the list should be disregarded no matter how cute it is. If it doesn’t match your list, you probably won’t be comfortable wearing it and it won’t get worn, which is a waste of money.

For example, my adjectives are Comfortable, Accessorized, and Tummy Hiding. You may come up with a longer list. What’s important is to know your body shape and colouring before you make this list.

#5: Know Before You Go

Before you hit the stores, hit the Internet to find out what’s available. Websites like Pretastyler are like online department stores and cover many price points. You can also go to their trends area to see what’s new and what’s on the way.

As you investigate, you’ll spot common threads (no pun intended), such as:

  • Themes: nautical, mod, ethnic, military, romantic
  • Shapes: strong angular shapes, round, straight
  • Fit: very fitted, soft and flowing
  • Colourred, blues, yellows
  • Fabrictweed, chiffon, anything textured
  • Patterns: floral, ethnic, checks, stripes
  • Surfaces: Matte, sheen, shine, sparkle
  • Accessories: types of bags, necklaces, shoes, eyewear
  • Makeup and Hair: short, long, up, down, casual, stylized

If you’re not happy with what you find, don’t worry. You’re only a season away from a new crop of styles. Your investigating will also show you which stores carry the styles you prefer, which makes shopping simpler.

Trends 2013

#6: Wardrobe Core Decisions

What are the best wardrobe decisions when thinking about fashion for 50 year olds? Trends are fleeting, but fashion is flexible. What does this mean? It means spend your money on high quality core, go-to items which flatter your shape, are simple in style, and can be mixed and matched with other items. For example, a solid blazer can be worn with jeans for a dressy casual look or with slacks or a pencil skirt for office attire. A crisp pink poplin shirt can add a light, feminine touch to tweed or give structure to a gauzy crinkled skirt or capris and sandals. If you aim for neutral colors in your core items, you can add colour through non-core seasonal garments and jewelry, scarves, shoes, and handbags, which are easily changeable through the seasons.
If current trends have you thinking there’s no way you can wear them despite how cute they look, remember this: clothing manufacturers and pattern companies know many customers do not have supermodel figures and adapt fashion trends into more figure-flattering styles.

#7: Lift & Support

As you age, gravity’s effect on your body becomes more noticeable. Thankfully, you can forego plastic surgery and liposuction and buy shapewear. Shapewear can be your new best friend. Imagine those bulges and jiggles smoothing away in this breathable, comfortable support. You’ll be amazed at how much better you’ll look and feel.

Speaking of support, if you haven’t been fitted for a bra in a while, get yourself to a store where a trained bra-fitter will help you find the right size and cup. The higher and perkier your girls are, the more youthful your figure will look.

#8: Avoid ‘Mutton Dressed as Lamb’

We’ve all seen it; women who cross the line from tasteful to tacky, chic to freak, vivacious to vulgar. Not all trends are appropriate for women over 50. They were never meant to be. A simple way to decide what’s hot and what’s not for your age is, “When in doubt, don’t.”
Here are a few suggestions of no-gos for 50+ women:

  • Bare midriffs
  • Mid thigh or higher skirts
  • Over the knee boots
  • Anything ultra tight
  • Low cut tops if you have a saggy chest
  • Sleeveless tops if you have saggy upper arms
  • G-string swimwear

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The Fab Life

Once you embark on this new journey into 50+ style, you’ll be amazed at how you respond mentally and physically. Don’t be surprised when you discover a more confident you walking out the door with your head held high and vitality energizing you steps. You may be a grandma, but you look and act ready to conquer the world with the best fashion for 50 year olds.

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